Monday, December 18, 2006

Better left unsaid...

This was my weekend to play Designated Driver for my boyfriend and a couple of his buddies. I must say listening to married guys (their wives were out of town) talk about relationships is fascinating.

One of them mentioned that his wife got upset when he made some comment about another woman. Go figure. His rationale is that he's a man and he's going to notice other women and he's better off being honest about it. I figure that she knows he's a man, and just like she notices other men, she knows that he looks at other women. She just doesn't want that confirmation. So when he talks about it, of course she gets upset. In other words, I told him some of those thoughts are better left unsaid to your partner.

What do you think? Is it better to just leave some things out when talking to your significant other? Or is uncensored honesty the best policy?

1 comment:

Adam Kealoha Causey said...

Save yourself and your relationship: Keep your mouth shut!